Will you secure your families future?

Will and family law

I’m young – why should I make a will?

Wills deal with the distribution of assets after death, so most people think of them as an end-of-life issue. Why would someone in the prime of life want to think about what happens after their death?

We all hope to live a long and productive life, but sadly sometimes fate intervenes. And even if you reach your four score and ten, you still want to be sure your property goes to the beneficiaries of your choosing. If you die without a valid will you have no say in what happens to your estate. Your ‘estate’ is the legal term for your assets, which include your house or flat (if you own it), your savings and investments, and your personal possessions. If you die without a will you are said to be ‘intestate’. The ‘Rules of Intestacy’ will divide your estate in a way set out by law and it may not be distributed the way you wish it to be or to the people you most want to benefit. It also may not be carried out in the most tax-efficient way. What this means is that if you live with someone, even if you are married or have step-children, they may not automatically inherit your estate.

If you have children

If you are a parent of a minor child or children it is particularly important to have a valid will. In addition to ensuring that your assets are distributed according to your wishes, your will sets out your intentions for the care of your children should you die before they reach 18. If you are married you might presume that your surviving spouse will retain custody, but you must make provision for your children’s welfare should something happen to the pair of you. It is, thankfully, extremely rare, but tragic accidents do sometimes happen. The nomination in your will of a legal guardian will at least spare your children the trauma of being made wards of court while a guardian is appointed on top of the tragedy of losing their parents.

If you are a single parent it is all the more critical to name a guardian, particularly if you have reason to believe the non-custodial parent would not be a suitable full-time caregiver. These matters are never pleasant to contemplate or to discuss but it is important to sit down with family members or close friends, as appropriate, and agree how your children will be looked after in the event of your untimely death. Second to the death of a child, dying while their children are small is most parents’ worst fear, so having legally documented plans in place can provide the peace of mind you need to forget about it and get on with living.

Why should you use a lawyer?

There are many do-it-yourself templates online that theoretically enable you to create your own will free of charge. In fact you could just write your wishes on paper and have it witnessed. However, trying to make your own will without legal assistance is not a good idea. You may make mistakes or there may be a lack of clarity and this could mean that your will is invalid. If you have a number of beneficiaries and your finances are complicated, it is even more important that you get a professionally trained attorney to create your will. This makes it easier for those you leave behind and guarantees your intentions will be properly expressed and executed.

Before seeing a lawyer, you should make a list of what you have in your estate. Be specific. Don’t just say ‘furniture’ if you want your grandmother’s antique writing desk to go to a specific family member. Then you can decide how your estate is to be shared between beneficiaries (who gets what). You also need to think about:

• What happens if any of your beneficiaries die before you do. For example you may wish to include your parents in your will in the event that you die first; but the likelihood is that they will pre-decease you. So be clear about your instructions and also remember to update your will after any major life event
• Who will look after your children (if you have any)
• Who should carry out the wishes contained in your will (your executor)
• Any other wishes you may have, for example whether you want to be buried or cremated

When should you update your will?

Once you have written your will you should review it regularly to make sure it reflects your wishes, especially if you undergo a major life event, such as:

• You get married or enter into a life partnership with someone
• You get divorced
• You have children; or other relatives you wish to benefit, for example nieces, nephews or grandchildren, come into the family
• You buy a new property or obtain expensive assets (such as buying a new car)

How do you find a lawyer to help?

Not all lawyers specialise in estate planning and the drafting of wills. Even if you have a family lawyer or an attorney who has represented you for legal matters in the past, it is worth checking if they offer a writing service and what their fee is.

Simon Dippenaar and Associates are specialists in family law and can help you draw up your will to ensure your estate is distributed and your children are cared for exactly the way you would like after your death. Contact Simon now on 087 550 2740 or email him on info@sdlaw.co.za to discuss your needs.


Simon Dippenaar | SD Law Cape Town


Simon Dippenaar has a BBusSc LLB degree and Professional Diploma in Legal Practice from the University of Cape Town, and is an admitted attorney of the High Court of South Africa. He is the founder and director of private legal practice, Simon Dippenaar & Associates, with offices in Cape Town and Gauteng representing South African and international clients.

View more posts from this author

Stay in contact